My Mom Left Me After Birth Now She's Found Me And Asks Me For Help

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  • Published: 18 October 2019
  • Hi, people, my name is Neal, and I’m 18. My parents abandoned me when I was a baby, and I had to grow up alone with my disease. And now I'm faced with the choice of taking care of my biological mom or not.

    Yeah, I never knew my parents because they gave me up because I wasn't born normal. Yes, I look pretty good now, but when I was born I was diagnosed with cerebral palsy. It's a terrible disease. Because of brain damage, I had motor problems. Actually, not just problems... I literally couldn't control my arms and legs, and my fingers flexed uncontrollably. And it looks like my parents decided not to bother themselves with taking care of a sick child. So I was put up for adoption. But in our country there is one problem with this system of adoption. Many parents adopt children with disabilities just to get the monetary benefits for them, but in reality they do not pay any attention to these poor kids. And this was what happened to me.

    Of course I don’t remember anything that happened during the first years of my life, but my childhood and youth I remember perfectly, because it was long and painful. I spent all my early years in a wheelchair. The doctors had a hard time with me, and my therapy lasted for years. My foster parents treated everything carelessly too, which also slowed down the process. By the way, they never hid from me the fact that I was adopted. On the contrary, my adoptive mother and father reminded about it every opportunity they got. And it was not just them. There were also two older boys in the family. And no, I can't call them brothers... not even half-brothers.

    Almost all the difficulties of my childhood happened because of them. They laughed at me because I couldn't control my body. I couldn't even drink water from a glass, and they found that funny. But that's nothing. What saddened me the most was that they were angry with me. I was an outsider who was adopted by their parents and I was just a stranger to them. They were unhappy that I was taking up a spot in their house, that I was eating their food, and that I was taking their parent's attention from them. Although I never felt I had the attention of my parents. Yeah, these kids were very angry. They bullied me even though I was disabled. And worst of all, I couldn't even fight back. I couldn’t even say something back, because I also had problems with my speech. But it seems to me that because I wanted so badly to prove to them that I was normal, I started to progress. I learned to walk, and I even fixed my speech problems, but they still found a way to make fun of me. Their favorite joke was to hide something from me on the top shelf so I couldn't reach it. Once they hid my phone on the bookshelf, and to get it, I had to stand on a stool. Oh, this was a real challenge for me. I could barely climb it, and as I reached up, my legs gave out on me, and I fell to the floor. I almost broke my arm and hit my head. I even had to get stitches. But guess what? I was blamed for this incident. My mom said I shouldn't have climbed on the stool, and the real culprits went unpunished.

    During these moments, I liked to be alone and paint in my room. And I know what you're thinking. How could I even draw a straight line? Yeah, it was hard, but it was very good for my motor skills. We were told that in therapy. Of course the pictures came out terrible, and they just turned into another reason for other kids to laugh at me. But it made me happy, so I wasn’t upset. I mean, if I overreacted every time they mocked me I would have just gone crazy. But on the contrary, I saw it as an incentive to exercise more and build my muscles. The only way that you could really hurt me was to mention my parents who had abandoned me. It was always painful for me. Probably because all the other children's jokes were little things for the sake of being funny, but what my biological parents did to me, well, that was true . So there was always a desire inside me to find them and prove that I was a normal person and that they made a mistake that cost me years of suffering. But I could turn that suffering into fuel for the internal engine that drove me forward. This motivated me to exercise even more, and I got double the pleasure and benefit from doing it. It helped me to get rid of bad thoughts, and I improved my motor skills. Honestly, I could've spent the whole day training. And after the exhausting exercises I would sit down to draw again. As you can see, almost everything that I did was to be able to repair my body.


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  • ACTUALLY HAPPENED
    ACTUALLY HAPPENED   2 months back

    Thanks for watching, guys! Do you think he did the right thing? Or should he have left mom alone? Write what you think in the comments. And don’t forget to subscribe to this channel, so you don't miss more stories!

    • iiWizzy
      iiWizzy  4 hours back

      Actually he didn't. Cause what if he died after he was abandoned? There would be no one to take care of her plus she doesn't want to give to the community she just wants to receive. I would have left her and even if she begged me I'd remind her that she left me and needed a new start. So let her get a new start with her husband.

    • Krish Prasad
      Krish Prasad  1 days back

      You should have left her alone because she left you alone when you were a baby

    • NYC NATE
      NYC NATE  1 days back

      Right thing he's a Angel the parents are demons

    • Whyatt Lee
      Whyatt Lee  2 days back

      Another angle on the story that I thought about is.
      A lot of questions.
      first off the parents
      didn't have a name or anything to go off of
      And he paid someone a lot of money to find information which could be completely bogus.
      then the people pushed him away. outside of the convenience story that was disclosed later.
      And somehow the desire to want to belong or have answers to questions he searched for.
      inclines the individual to have a guilt complex .
      enough to want to help a person who may not even be the person you think they are.

    • Tyler
      Tyler  3 days back

      Hey the title was misleading your channel should be deleted

  • We are Epic
    We are Epic  1 hours back

    you are the kindest pperson ;owkey

    • Kay Houlahan
      Kay Houlahan  1 hours back

      Same

      • Suraj Kumar
        Suraj Kumar  2 hours back

        👌👌👌👌

        • ImvuAniyah&Londyn GANG
          ImvuAniyah&Londyn GANG  5 hours back

          she kinda did ask you for help 🤣🤣

          • Lady Ree
            Lady Ree  8 hours back

            My emotions are mix hearing these all!😣😣

            • Aj Ramos
              Aj Ramos  8 hours back

              I mean... I would do the same

              • GamerShadowBoy HQ
                GamerShadowBoy HQ  9 hours back

                You got a good heart man

                • GAMEZILLA Gaming
                  GAMEZILLA Gaming  10 hours back

                  Yes it wasn't right for u to be abandoned but if u hurt back that makes u worse than what they did to u so u supporting your mother actually was the best thing to do plus it shows that u are strong and even better than who they are

                  • Patrick Duckworth
                    Patrick Duckworth  10 hours back

                    Is it just me or did he basically give a short half lustered over view of the disease he has. More importantly what he has isn't even a disease its a disorder so even more questions cause i would like to know how it effects his brain and more then just make his arms shake uncontrollably not trying to be rude but im very confused


                    Also i love how he acts like america is the only country that will have douche bag people who adopt disabled people for profit. Look i know thats a terrible thing but lets be honest there all thousands of horrible people all over the world who would do that

                    • Heidi Karikari
                      Heidi Karikari  12 hours back

                      I would of been petty and left her

                      • Sakura Haruno
                        Sakura Haruno  14 hours back

                        Wow I Don’t even figure if those world is wonderful or cruel 😞

                        • Chazz Harris
                          Chazz Harris  15 hours back

                          Were you born like panokio?

                          • Wario 123
                            Wario 123  15 hours back

                            you did good

                            • Jon Runchel
                              Jon Runchel  15 hours back

                              JANERUNCH

                              • Mia Matt
                                Mia Matt  15 hours back

                                L

                                • Mia Matt
                                  Mia Matt  15 hours back

                                  B*bb

                                  • Alyx Shibley
                                    Alyx Shibley  15 hours back

                                    This video maid me cry beacuse I’m 10 years old and I have no dad beacuse he abused me at 4 years old and my mom is in jail and I get her back when I’m 16

                                    • Angel Calix
                                      Angel Calix  16 hours back

                                      1 like=one slap for two brothers

                                      • Jesus R
                                        Jesus R  17 hours back

                                        My sister got cerebral palsy as well

                                        • Slay queen Adams
                                          Slay queen Adams  18 hours back

                                          Left her like she done to u

                                          • Xx MiiaYT xX
                                            Xx MiiaYT xX  19 hours back

                                            This young man taught us a valuable lesson

                                            • OmarionNatorYT
                                              OmarionNatorYT  20 hours back

                                              U did the right thing

                                              • Gaia Alfa
                                                Gaia Alfa  20 hours back

                                                He didt not

                                                • Chloe Means
                                                  Chloe Means  21 hours back

                                                  I think you've done the right thing to take care of your mother.😇

                                                  • Puspbati Dash
                                                    Puspbati Dash  22 hours back

                                                    I believe that many people will be inspired by you
                                                    Good Job man...
                                                    Love from India😁🙏👍

                                                    • Captain Rex
                                                      Captain Rex  22 hours back

                                                      Actually happened?
                                                      More like
                                                      Actually didn’t happen?

                                                      • Jersie Paña
                                                        Jersie Paña  23 hours back

                                                        Those damn muscles made me crack so hard

                                                        • Moon Pie Purple
                                                          Moon Pie Purple  1 days back

                                                          *Yeah i think its okay to help your Parents also since being thankful for being Born and being Alive still but getting Bullied? Its now too much. And its not Quite bad that they left you?? And helping Parents that are old is good and they don't live long while they are old. And its a Miracle to be Born so Be Angel that Your Parents made you Lived.*

                                                          • kingmanji
                                                            kingmanji  1 days back

                                                            Bullies are the best secret motivators and insult is better encouragement than empathy

                                                            • Annabellapoo Buonpoo
                                                              Annabellapoo Buonpoo  1 days back

                                                              You done the white thing

                                                              • Paul Gavin
                                                                Paul Gavin  1 days back

                                                                I didn’t think you did the right thing I think it’s because I’m Christian and Jesus is turn the other cheek

                                                                • Fanstin Y.
                                                                  Fanstin Y.  1 days back

                                                                  What is wrong with your grammar ACTUALLY HAPPENED?

                                                                  • James Heaney
                                                                    James Heaney  1 days back

                                                                    Hate that mom aaaaaarrrrrrrrrr!!!!!

                                                                    • DEAD KACHU
                                                                      DEAD KACHU  1 days back

                                                                      Humans r humans god u did right.if really believe in god then u need godness.

                                                                      • SADxLoves
                                                                        SADxLoves  1 days back

                                                                        Ok the title says his mom found him and asks for help

                                                                        BUT TURNS OUT HE FOUND HIS MOM AND HELPED HER WITHOUT ASKING.
                                                                        LOOK OF DISAPPROVAL ಠಗಠ( ⚈̥̥̥̥̥́⌢⚈̥̥̥̥̥̀)ಠ_ಠ

                                                                        • Kerry Mixon
                                                                          Kerry Mixon  1 days back

                                                                          Yes you did the right thing

                                                                          • Marco Garcia
                                                                            Marco Garcia  1 days back

                                                                            You did right you are an absolute ANGEL

                                                                            • gaming devil
                                                                              gaming devil  1 days back

                                                                              no!! she does not deserve to get help

                                                                              • Alsatar Sultan
                                                                                Alsatar Sultan  1 days back

                                                                                what he leave her momo

                                                                                • Nick Jedi
                                                                                  Nick Jedi  1 days back

                                                                                  Your life sounds like a good movie we’re in the end your famous

                                                                                  • Frank Houston
                                                                                    Frank Houston  1 days back

                                                                                    Karma is a bitch❗️👁✔️👁👌 But this individual character and life is Epic. From the bottom of my heart I salute you 😎🥰.

                                                                                    • William Howard
                                                                                      William Howard  1 days back

                                                                                      I was born 3 months early and the only disadvantage I have is decrease in growth

                                                                                      • Liliana Via
                                                                                        Liliana Via  2 days back

                                                                                        Me: *sees a disable kid and I want to adopt them*
                                                                                        Also me: this kid deserves a home and to be give one a good amount of attention

                                                                                        • Aj Ramos
                                                                                          Aj Ramos  8 hours back

                                                                                          Lol sure. Keep dreaming little kid

                                                                                      • 21mvp Omg
                                                                                        21mvp Omg  2 days back

                                                                                        I wonder what the brothers thought after he left

                                                                                        • Laura Tsend
                                                                                          Laura Tsend  2 days back

                                                                                          What a beautiful story of forgiveness ❤️

                                                                                          • Tofu Tube
                                                                                            Tofu Tube  2 days back

                                                                                            I don't think I would

                                                                                            • Kentrell t Adams
                                                                                              Kentrell t Adams  2 days back

                                                                                              Did you guys not get how he said he was 18 and at 5:57 he said I finally turned 18