Jeannie Says You Need To Be Your Own Upgrade In a Relationship


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  • Alah price
    Alah price  5 days back

    I can’t imagine how amazing he’s treating her that brings her to tears to talk about him🥺🥺

    • BWealthy
      BWealthy  2 weeks back

      It's okay

      • Attorney Natasha Scruggs
        Attorney Natasha Scruggs  2 months back

        Jeanie seemed like the Alpha in the relationship. Seems like she only asked him to do certain things because she’s living her life the way she wanted.

        • Mami needs Coffee
          Mami needs Coffee  3 months back

          That is a whole new level

          • Monique Saldeba
            Monique Saldeba  3 months back

            Like I’ve watch this over and over and over and over at least 20 times

            • Ashley Medina
              Ashley Medina  4 months back

              This hit me different. I get it completely what she’s saying.

              • Francesca Cesca
                Francesca Cesca  4 months back

                looove her!!!!!

                • Celest Rodriguez
                  Celest Rodriguez  4 months back

                  I love you Jheani Mai!!! Never settle !!

                  • cc l
                    cc l  4 months back

                    Theres a ton of friendzoned dudes in the history of time that would cancel their Saturday night plans to take a female they like to the airport.

                    • Amanda
                      Amanda  4 months back

                      I've learned so much from Jeannie Mai since this show started and I hope she understands how much it means to us when she talks about her life stories and lessons. A lot of can relate!

                      • Amanda Sweeney
                        Amanda Sweeney  4 months back

                        That 👏 part Jeannie

                        • Tony John
                          Tony John  4 months back

                          Her standards were low and then she got another black man !

                          • Ashley Rodriguez
                            Ashley Rodriguez  4 months back

                            I love Jeannie so much❤

                            • william carter
                              william carter  4 months back

                              The Bible says what a man thinketh so he is That's Heavy an oh so true...

                              • william carter
                                william carter  4 months back

                                Everything in life is about being your own upgrade but in order to be your own upgrade that means you have to be willing to take an honest look at your own bull, an if we do that we could put psychiatrists and psychologist out business and save ourselves a billion dollars an hour..

                                • L V
                                  L V  4 months back

                                  Something tells me that she's confused about relationships as a whole. She's comparing ex versus current boyfriend. She gotta let the past go because it seems to still be on her mind and will mess this new relationship up as well. Just my 2 cents, don't kill me.

                                  • Dwight Gibson Jr Xfinity
                                    Dwight Gibson Jr Xfinity  4 months back

                                    True. We need to have aspirations for ourselves in order to have someone come into our lives to enhance the motivation for the lack thereof. Sometimes, especially in America, we are eaten to the point we can’t up lift ourselves; a supporting spark is needed. This perfectly comes through an opposite sex marriage. Why marriage? It is because people that have no vows to your life will at a weak point give up on you or grow bitter and leave off keeping you kindled; yet they want to be kindled if you always. You can stretch scenarios out of that, but the point is given.

                                    My wife does the same. I invested in her to have a business, and I was all in. Nevertheless, being overly indecisive and unmotivated about her own desire to have a business left me unable to up lift her as she desired. If we both had the same passionate desire for the business that is understandable for me to be at par with her.

                                    When you lose a precious thing you realize it, but when you women realize it, you don’t do the just thing and return to what was broken and repair. You like to move on as if a miracle healing will occur and you can try again with someone not knowing if your mistake or error. This never works the right way. Once you upgrade, return to repair the breach of vows, and be carefully long-suffering with healing.

                                    This goes both ways, but men are very forgiving after an upgrade moment. We have a mind to repair.

                                    Your sorrow from the story shows clearly you need to repair your breach of vows, unless the special case is he is not a devoted man to the Most High. The next man should heal you and benefit from your upgrade.

                                    Anyways, this is small talk. You are right. Once you realize you change and try to be better.

                                    • Asha Amore
                                      Asha Amore  4 months back


                                      • Gabrielle Ivie
                                        Gabrielle Ivie  4 months back

                                        You get so use to people letting you don’t to the point when someone doesn’t let you down it catches you off guard like hold on this couldn’t be right lol 😂😂😂😂

                                        • Darkchild Starship
                                          Darkchild Starship  4 months back

                                          It's all fun til he get a stripper pregnant

                                          • Anita Garbett
                                            Anita Garbett  4 months back

                                            Can someone make a compilation of Jeannie’s best stories?!

                                            • Love
                                              Love  4 months back

                                              Those "white girls" fairy tales is how love and relationships are supposed to be not the bullshit you were us too. That just show the standards you had vs the standards the "white girls" didn't except.
                                              Pay attention and stop always talking bad about "white girls white women" because you were or is unhappy with excepting low standards! We can learn something from them.

                                              • Tshego LaBelle
                                                Tshego LaBelle  4 months back

                                                This is so true!! I had an ex tell me once that he only gave me the bare minimum because he knew that that's what I was willing to accept. As horrible as that may sound, he was telling the truth because at the time I didn't know my worth and was willing to lower my standards and accept mediocrity. Now that's all changed😂😂 DONE with that... I love myself too much to not do that again😍❤🤗

                                                • last chance
                                                  last chance  4 months back

                                                  Girls everything happens for good. He left you? Sis i swear on my life you gonna meet someone so much better just stay strong and FOCUS ON YOUR SELF,HEAL BABY GIRL❤❤❤

                                                  • Patt Kate
                                                    Patt Kate  4 months back

                                                    "i've ubered through my whole marriage"
                                                    that broke my heart. i'm so happy you found someone who loves you right, J!

                                                    • Ray Patson
                                                      Ray Patson  4 months back

                                                      I really would like to hear at least one show discuss what women bring to relationship, what women do or should do for their boyfriend or husband besides the vagina. It's so politically incorrect even to suggest that women should do something for the man for once.

                                                      • Naomi Mpana
                                                        Naomi Mpana  4 months back

                                                        COULD LISTEN TO JEANNIE ALL MF DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!! Goodness gracious.

                                                        • Morga Bella
                                                          Morga Bella  4 months back

                                                          I can honestly relate. I think many of us can. The only difference is her strength. I absolutely love her and her courage to speak about it!

                                                          • Zibby Zee
                                                            Zibby Zee  4 months back

                                                            The time I took to be alone by myself was my upgrade...Jeannie hit me with that one. Ladies keep them standards high. Know that you are to be treated right by a man. Some men play too many games and will have you playing right along with them. Keep your legs closed and stay on your A GAME. While single accomplish and do for self. You/I deserve that. Have something to bring to the table besides your caked up looks.

                                                            • SARA
                                                              SARA  4 months back

                                                              I'm tired of her making it seem like Freddy was such a demon in their marriage like she was without fault.

                                                              • SARA
                                                                SARA  4 months back

                                                                No disrespect but dropping a girlfriend off at the airport is not that big a deal. My boyfriend did this for me at 17. Are we praising this because she's asian and hes black?

                                                                And to the goofy black women in the comments crying over this, do you think Jeezy would've done the same for you as a black woman? Lol

                                                                • Amilcar Polanen
                                                                  Amilcar Polanen  4 months back

                                                         if i could just find a girl who appreciates me like that.

                                                                  • TheSoni83
                                                                    TheSoni83  4 months back

                                                                    I’m 35 been single for 8 years felt like these 8 years have taught me soooo much I understand Jeanie about the upgrade I get it.. my ex made me lower my standards I realised how dumb I was pining for him .. he made me have trust issues. I sometimes feel am I going to be single forever ... 😕

                                                                    • SARA
                                                                      SARA  4 months back

                                                                      TheSoni83 I'm 35 too and feel the same way at time, but dont think its too late. I feel you find true love at any age and somebody who will value you. What ive learned is that I have to see value within myself, which I hadn't before due to low self esteem. Not anymore I wish you the best

                                                                  • R D
                                                                    R D  4 months back

                                                                    Just know 1 thing 4 sho, Jeezy will drop U 2 the airport and that's special YEP he's a keeper 😂 Pass me a tissue 😂

                                                                    • kuda xx
                                                                      kuda xx  4 months back

                                                                      Thanks Jeannie.. I like u now #respect

                                                                      • Vanessa Westbrook
                                                                        Vanessa Westbrook  4 months back

                                                                        That is so real!

                                                                        • Shamillah Kasemire
                                                                          Shamillah Kasemire  4 months back

                                                                          Jeannie mai deserved a black man on period i ain't playing race cards but they tend to care the most👌

                                                                          • SARA
                                                                            SARA  4 months back

                                                                            Shamillah Kasemire 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that's a joke right? All these single mothers due to black men and they care the most? Girl

                                                                        • Kristy Smith
                                                                          Kristy Smith  4 months back

                                                                          You have to have a standard before the relationship or you’ll take whatever they give and think it’s great.

                                                                          • snenhlanhla nkomose
                                                                            snenhlanhla nkomose  4 months back

                                                                            jeannie is me ,im so used to doing things on my own i end up overly appreciating the bare minimum.i have this idont want to bother anyone attitude and it affecting how much effort people put to please me

                                                                            • redblueorange
                                                                              redblueorange  4 months back

                                                                              I love u Jeannie Mai ♥️ may you be as cherished in your relationship as you have never been before.

                                                                              • Jason Shampansky
                                                                                Jason Shampansky  4 months back

                                                                                You sound like a white girl

                                                                                • AS
                                                                                  AS  4 months back

                                                                                  Yes let your man be a real man and protect you and be a gentlemen. Real men are protectors, providers and pursuers. Jeezy wants you to be in your feminine power and take care of you. Embrace your feminity and let him be the man of your dreams. Having high standards weeds out the bad men.

                                                                                  • MzHoneySugga Pie
                                                                                    MzHoneySugga Pie  4 months back

                                                                                    Just BEAUTIFUL!!, & Wish her & her new Bae all the best 🌸

                                                                                    • Marcus LosGreat
                                                                                      Marcus LosGreat  4 months back

                                                                                      She's overthinking too much

                                                                                      • Bobby Brown
                                                                                        Bobby Brown  4 months back

                                                                                        What a black man that knows respect and value of a woman I don't believe it

                                                                                        • Diana Ramirez
                                                                                          Diana Ramirez  4 months back

                                                                                          I love you Jeannie , I want me a Jeezy

                                                                                          • SARA
                                                                                            SARA  4 months back

                                                                                            Diana Ramirez lol the bare minimum like dropping you off at an airport? You wanna be a single mother i see? Lol

                                                                                        • Kimberley Sinclair
                                                                                          Kimberley Sinclair  4 months back

                                                                                          Love you Jeannie!! 🤗
                                                                                          So happy for you.

                                                                                          • Rilo Ross
                                                                                            Rilo Ross  4 months back

                                                                                            MFers get in a new relationship they think they got all the advice 🤣🤣🤣
                                                                                            Shut up hoe lol

                                                                                            • SARA
                                                                                              SARA  4 months back

                                                                                              Rilo Ross lol I know