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  • Published: 04 April 2019
  • ▶ Kati Morton: superiorjanitorial.pro/user/katimorton
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Comments • 1 785

  • Honey Mist
    Honey Mist  3 days back

    When you bleep asshole but not mindfuck

    • Draculitis__
      Draculitis__  3 days back

      I seriously just googled whether or not Katie Morton was Valarie Marks on Awkward..
      I was wrong but she looks like her.

      • dumb tomato
        dumb tomato  3 days back

        What do you do when no isn't enough?

        • Fanny Chapa Espino
          Fanny Chapa Espino  4 days back

          I remember missing the person I fell for, the one who made me feel special. That person was not real and it was really hard to understand that and let my heart heal.

          • Sammi Veres
            Sammi Veres  6 days back

            This video made an insane amount of sense to me, and it helped me hurt a little less. Thanks Kate and Illy <3

            • Shadow Chan
              Shadow Chan  1 weeks back

              NICE

              • Shuron Poteat
                Shuron Poteat  1 weeks back

                Uhhhh I have no ideas with my mom right now she died...

                • xcarmen
                  xcarmen  2 weeks back

                  i cant exactly leave because my abuser is my mom and im 12

                  • shunsuke takeshi
                    shunsuke takeshi  3 weeks back

                    I ❤ this vid ,thank u

                    • AlisonIsHere
                      AlisonIsHere  3 weeks back

                      Yall are both so beautiful ♥️♥️♥️

                      • Bethenny Torres
                        Bethenny Torres  4 weeks back

                        Okay okay okay Whately refresh my memory okay now I remember what I was going to say so do you need to have some rest and probably spend time with your little cat and I'm not talking about your other cat who passed away I'm talking about Luigi Green Man with the mustache I'm talking about the little green I'm talking about the little cat man with a mustache your cat your son Luigi I'm sorry my friend green when I was talking about Louis and anyways I like that video and showed Luigi but you're right the cat noises he made was annoying you tried gold the cat goes on a loan but I won't be commenting I'm going to be commenting every single video and giving you comic

                        • Super A.J.S.
                          Super A.J.S.  1 months back

                          Definitely been told how poorly I do X, Y, Z and every other letter in the alphabet.

                          • shake me down
                            shake me down  1 months back

                            *shane dawson style*

                            • Master Drawer
                              Master Drawer  1 months back

                              I haven't talked to my mom in 3 years until one day in summer, she never talked to me how I was doing because her nervous behavior kept my siblings for our family.
                              It was a really long story to talk about 3 years ago.

                              • Brooke Alexandra
                                Brooke Alexandra  1 months back

                                *LONG COMMENT, SORRY*
                                I, fortunately, have not experienced intimate partner abuse within my life, but I have experienced sibling abuse, which is a term that most people haven't even heard of because it is often dismissed as "sibling rivalry." I know what it's like to miss your abuser, for me, in the sense that, especially being twins, we always did everything together. We would play and joke around with each other night and day. He would protect me from anything. I remember once my dad was going to slap me for something and I ran straight to my brother and wrapped my arms around him. When we reached seventh grade, however, he just became so incredibly cruel. He had had periods of being mean (and violent) before, but this never stopped and hasn't really stopped. It reached its peak in eighth grade. He constantly called me worthless, stupid, lazy, burdensome, disgusting, and hopeless. He encouraged me to kill myself. He spoke to everyone about how much he hated me. He would occasionally beat me. I told my parents about it, but they told me to ignore the emotional abuse and essentially said that the beating didn't happen "a lot," and when they did, I shouldn't have "antagonized" him or had just stayed in my room (I did the latter for a while- I would just eat Graham crackers and peanut butter and I would urinate on towels or old clothes). But there still wasn't a lock on my door, so if he really wanted to, he could come in at any time and do whatever he wanted. And even though the beatings were occasional, the trauma wasn't. I was afraid to be near him or speak to him, and pretty much everyone for that matter. My friends have joked that I have the reflexes of a cat, and that's because I constantly watch my back. Any noise is a threat. I apologize constantly. I've agreed to relationships and giving things away because I felt afraid and worthless. I once kissed a boy "to be polite." I self-harmed for about a year and a half. Even if I was only beaten once, the fear would still follow me. Because I felt so helpless, I attempted suicide at the age of 13, months before middle school graduation. The only reason I'm still here is that the shower curtain rod I tried to hang myself from broke under my weight.
                                By Christmas of 9th grade, I was in therapy and succeeding on antidepressants. My parents got me a lock on my door. I had friends I felt comfortable confiding in, and was in a school that felt like home. I could see a future helping other kids like me as a doctor. I dreamt about driving and prom. I'm 15 in 10th grade now, and even though he hasn't gotten less cruel, my mind and body are safer.
                                To my fellow survivors: *THERE IS HOPE. YOUR GRIEF IS VALID, BUT YOUR LIFE IS MORE VALID.*

                                • irin JE
                                  irin JE  1 months back

                                  What was the panti story ?

                                  • G1orgoz
                                    G1orgoz  2 months back

                                    XD I can see the greenscreen shadow in your hair lol

                                    • Hikaru Hanazono
                                      Hikaru Hanazono  2 months back

                                      Oh man your animated Video really hit home, especially when I think about that I watched it when I still was in a "relationship" with my abuser,he was my ex boyfriend, he forced me to move over 400 miles to live with him and leave my family and everything else behind, so he was awful we "dated" for 3 years and it was honestly awful, he hit me and beat me up, and forced me to have sex with him multiple times, luckily I got out of this Situation in October 2018

                                      • lore
                                        lore  2 months back

                                        I'm 12 and I recently found out my big brother is a toxic sibling I always thought it was normal for a sibling to gate you and abuse you mentally and physically I try to avoid him I went with my best friend who Is really helping me too the school therapist but she doesnt think its that serious I told my mom and she thinks im over reacting my dad thankfully believes me but cant convince my mom to go to a therapist so now idont want to make my dad even more worried by telling him im depressed knowing that my mom probably still wouldn't believe me

                                        (Dont mind my spelling I'm from Belgium)

                                        • u w u t e a
                                          u w u t e a  2 months back

                                          Shane Dawson illy- wait... YEAS illymation+Shane+ryland mix= myself ;3 sorry, I know you had hard times and I’m just joking around.. oof bye now. Uh . Ushehh3ujssksjjsjsuajqoiwyeh

                                          • Neil Weber
                                            Neil Weber  2 months back

                                            This video was very opening for me because it reminded me I'm going to a new school and I don't know anybody there so I'm making sure I make good friends when I went to a new school a got toxic friends

                                            • shadesofsadness
                                              shadesofsadness  3 months back

                                              My best friend’s ex used my shitty relationship at the time they started dating to drive her and I a part so I wouldn’t see his shitty behavior towards her and call him on it. It worked as she didn’t talk to me for 2 years. And then she called me out of the blue and we reconnected. The look and his face when he saw me that first time that I came back was priceless. Bastard is in the dust now.

                                              • PottedNick
                                                PottedNick  3 months back

                                                You went to his house got a gun and fucked a rat in too town

                                                • Bayley Baker
                                                  Bayley Baker  3 months back

                                                  I think I’ve both been more or less the victim and I’ve been the victimizer ( or abuser) and I really want your opinion on my past relationships and just my life in general

                                                  • Bayley Baker
                                                    Bayley Baker  3 months back

                                                    Hi Illysa (hope I spelled that right) I live in Alabama and was wonder if there was I way I could contact you without getting any extremely personal contact information to talk to you about the life I’ve had.

                                                    • Hector Beck
                                                      Hector Beck  3 months back

                                                      And this PSA was brought to you by two awesome smart ladies

                                                      • Sed the randomtuber
                                                        Sed the randomtuber  3 months back

                                                        No hate but
                                                        EVERYONE HAS HUMAN RIGHTS TO DO STUFF BUT NO GROSS THINGS!

                                                        • Hamilham Fan2650
                                                          Hamilham Fan2650  3 months back

                                                          Kati: smort science-y talk

                                                          Illy: [looks at camera] yes

                                                          • HΞLLBΞNT
                                                            HΞLLBΞNT  3 months back

                                                            Am I the only one watching this to know how not to get caught being an abuser?

                                                            I'M JOKING PLEASE

                                                            • TheRandomFiend
                                                              TheRandomFiend  3 months back

                                                              IM HERE FOR THE CHAOS! but where is the chaos...

                                                              • Aprils Gacha fails!
                                                                Aprils Gacha fails!  3 months back

                                                                I was in a terrible relationship with my friend she has tried to slap me about 2 times and attempted to punch my sister when I was around her I felt like a can't trust her since she talked sh*t about me behind my back so now I have trust issues and a long time ago I also had eating disorders cause of her...
                                                                But I'm fine now and try to stay away from her!

                                                                • Allon Chen
                                                                  Allon Chen  3 months back

                                                                  Yes

                                                                  • The Fangirls Guide
                                                                    The Fangirls Guide  3 months back

                                                                    ⚠ Warning! ⚠: this is a very long comment. So.... You have been warned.
                                                                    Recently I broke up with my almost-a-year-long boyfriend. I haven't been that sad about it but I've also been emotionally checked out of that relationship since June. I won't use his last name but since it doesn't matter I will use his first. Cole was my best friend from the end of seventh grade onward. We would cuddle and I would sit on his lap like we were a couple, we weren't, I had a girlfriend at that point. Shes was amazing, but I eventually realized that I wasn't as invested in the relationship as her so we cut it off. We're still friends though.


                                                                    During the summer of 8th grade, we got together over text (since..I mean were still kids we both liked each other so...*shrugs *). I didn't see him much since I lived with my mom during the summer and it was pretty far from him, but we would face time and text and it was fine. When freshman year started, it was pretty much the same, except we could see each other during lunch and before school. I'll get back to them at lunch later. He didn't have any classes with me and we never really made and plans outside of school. Don't get me wrong I tried, but he was always said he was busy (red flag #1).


                                                                    For a little more backstory we are both clinically depressed, and it's not fun. But I thought that we would both be there for each other...he was never there for me. He would always text at around 11 pm with an "I'm crying and hate myself" text. I was almost asleep. When I saw the messages I always felt bad and tried to text him in the morning, but he wouldn't respond. So when I got to school I would try to talk to him about it but he would pretend that it didn't happen. When I was sad and lonely and ready to jump off a building I would text him, and he wouldn't respond, or he would but he wouldn't make me feel any better. If anything he reenforced it (red flag #2)


                                                                    Back to the at lunch stuff, my friends had a friend named Kyle and he would sit with us sometimes. But Cole would tell him no, that he hated him, to kill hi self. And yeah, that's bad, red flag #3, but I had it in my head that Cole was a good person. That he was just joking...Kyle didn't it with us anymore. The school year went pretty much like that.


                                                                    Towards the end, our school put on one more show choir show after the season had already ended. Both of us are in show choir (I'm in JV he was in varsity) but it didn't matter that much. Before the show, I had a full-on mental breakdown in the hallway. I sat on the floor crying my eyes out, shaking and trying not to scream...


                                                                    Cole walked past me....3 times....never stopped to ask if I was ok....Never stopping to make me feel better....


                                                                    When the school year ended, he stopped answering my texts,. I tried to get out friends to get him to talk to me, I tried calling, and calling, and *calling*. He never answered. Eventually, I learned from my wonderful friend Abbey, that he was saying that *I* was ignoring him, not answering *his* calls. I heard his voice on the call, (she as on break and they worked together,) I tried to convince her to hand him the phone but he aid he didn't want to do "this" over his break. I got upset and hung up and cried in the car with my mom sitting next to me...


                                                                    I was on snapchat looking at my friend's story when I learned that he was looking at mine. So I put an utimatum out, and I know he saw it. He didn't meet it so I publicly broke up with him. Like I said I'd been checked out of that relationship for months, but it didn't matter, because it still hurt. All my friends stood behind me and said that I was in the tight.

                                                                    • Arnold The Lord
                                                                      Arnold The Lord  3 months back

                                                                      What would you guys call a relationship where the man you’ve been with for years literally keeps you down and trapped in the house and when you want to start working he doesn’t let you or takes the money you make, doesn’t let you go out to places without him or forces you to make food for him no matter how sick or tired you are?

                                                                      • Mai :/
                                                                        Mai :/  3 months back

                                                                        z

                                                                        • Ana Castro
                                                                          Ana Castro  3 months back

                                                                          I'm currently stuck in a toxic friendship with a girl I met 2 years ago. She often insults my appearance, accuses me of many things involving my ethnicity and takes the side of a girl that HATES me often (I never did anything to that girl idk why she hates me so much). They always try to "expose" me even if I have nothing to hide, no one deserves friends like them. Do you guys have any advice? I'm planning to end the friendship I have with her as soon as I get back to school but I still need some advice from you all.

                                                                          • GLITCHY BOY STUDIOS
                                                                            GLITCHY BOY STUDIOS  3 months back

                                                                            I was going make an abuse joke
                                                                            Because I have a dark sense of humor but
                                                                            Recently my niece got strangled a Couple days ago
                                                                            And the girl who attacked her is in the same school as her and she keeps threatening her

                                                                            • Revenge YMG
                                                                              Revenge YMG  3 months back

                                                                              This all sounds like my dad

                                                                              • Fragile Turn
                                                                                Fragile Turn  3 months back

                                                                                This is something I can’t do. :,(

                                                                                • Marcelo llorando
                                                                                  Marcelo llorando  3 months back

                                                                                  I already watched it!

                                                                                  • uncle lover 1978 11 years ago

                                                                                    What r u going to gain from it.

                                                                                    • CoffeeToon Animations
                                                                                      CoffeeToon Animations  4 months back

                                                                                      Illysa, I'm sorry this happened to you, I'm glad you got through it, and moved on from it.

                                                                                      • Sophia E
                                                                                        Sophia E  4 months back

                                                                                        I just realized a few days ago that I may have had Stockholm syndrome. I’ve gotten over it though.

                                                                                        • Bleta 11Ymeri
                                                                                          Bleta 11Ymeri  4 months back

                                                                                          What if it's someone that you love do bad things to your other person that you love, or a family,if one of the parents hurts the other parent and leaves scars on the kids,they change,emotions,or behavior,and you don't want to let you children without a mother/father,and goes ok,then awful. Can you tell me what to do?

                                                                                          • Alexander Boyles
                                                                                            Alexander Boyles  4 months back

                                                                                            You are so beautiful and don't let anyone say anything about that

                                                                                            • Super Greyflash
                                                                                              Super Greyflash  4 months back

                                                                                              I just want to give you a cookie and a hug

                                                                                              • YelloJello
                                                                                                YelloJello  4 months back

                                                                                                i was like OMG thats the girl from the shane dawson video

                                                                                                • Karl Holde
                                                                                                  Karl Holde  4 months back

                                                                                                  Sorry, I still have a hard time trusting Kati, after the whole "psychopaths have no soul" deal.